Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Seriously?
I found out recently that one of my former friends openly admits he hates me. This shouldn't bother me since I long ago wrote him off as a friend, yet it does. When I cut him out, I simply stopped hanging out with him, or including him when I did things, but I didn't do anything to intentionally piss him off. I suppose there was something over Christmas. He normally had a few friends over New Years Eve, myself included most years, but of course I didn't want to go this year. With this completely out of my mind, I organized a get together with my friends the only day I could, New Years Eve (I organized this before he invited me to his annual New Years Eve thing). I even told one of our mutual friends who had been invited to both to go to the other shindig. Next thing I know, this former friend wants to egg my house that night, and now hates me enough to tell people about it. Like I said, I dropped his friendship a long time ago after beginning to realize he wasn't a very good person or friend, and I simply didn't like him anymore. Still, it really bugs me that he hates me. Sure I don't like him, but I wouldn't say I hate him, not even close. This shouldn't bug me, yet it does. I just don't know. Until next time, have fun, live life, and don't die. Good night folks.
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It's hard and weird to know someone out there hates you for no apparent reason. It never gets easier over time. But look at it this way. You have done nothing worthy of hatred and in turn you are now the better person. and if (insert name) hates you based on association, or that you didn't invite him to a few social gathering then (insert name) hasn't grown up.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Will. I appreciate your wisdom.
ReplyDeleteWave221 has got it right, the guy sounds like a griefer or a troll (the evil ones, not the B.A. ones) and it seems like he's well aware that he's acting like a child,or if he's not then all of the people he seems to want to invite to his place seem to know. Just don't let him get to you, although if it gets too bad you might consider simply contacting him and talking things out straight mono y mono.
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